Just tell me what to do!

If I could give you a super power it would be to believe in your ability to make good decisions.

Have you ever had this thought?  Just tell me what to do… to make my relationship work, my business a success, to heal a rift with a loved one, to find your purpose….

It’s a plea that comes from the best place—wanting to do what’s right and good and achieve things you dream about.

But other people usually can’t answer this for you entirely.  They can tell you what to do based on what’s worked for them, they can tell you what to do based on the outcome THEY think you should want, they can tell you what to do with what they know about you, but they can’t hear that secret voice inside you that has been speaking to you a long time about your dream.

If we’re ever truly going to be and achieve what we hope in the world we need to learn how to make choices.  That’s at the heart of giving yourself permission to lead the life of YOUR dreams. If I could give every woman and girl a super power this would be it.

I would gift us all the unwavering power to confidently make a decision, to truly know that we can handle the outcome or make another decision later if we need to do it.

There are so many reasons we don’t all have this power all of the time. So many of us just aren’t safe enough in the world to override that freeze that comes from a lifetime of wrong moves potentially meaning real danger. That’s the part Nike and their “just do it” leave out. But, there are places in our lives where we are leaving what power we do have on the table out of habit. And those are the decisions I want to help you give yourself permission to make.

If you need help with making decisions why not try my short audio course How to Give Yourself Permission? For just $25 you can take the next gentle step towards taking the action and creating the change you want in your life. Once you purchase you can download and listen to it over and over and it has some pdfs to support you if you’re more of a visual learner.